Cuckold fantasy

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It’s been a couple of years since I started to have this fantasy about my wife fucking other men. It all started slowly by asking her to dirty talk during sex. In the last two years or so, while fucking, she seems to enjoy being called a slut and a whore. She also seems to get extra wet when she says that she loves being treated like a whore. In the beginning she was reluctant to use any type of sex toy, until I decided to purchase a realistic 10 inch dildo. We used it once the first year, however, lately she has be more eager to have it all inside her Pussy. During causal conversations, she seems to be open to the idea of getting fucked by other men, but the en she appears to change her mind.

How do I ask her without making her feel weird? Any rules that any of you have that would help her be more open to it? Anything tips before moving into that direction?
 
I think that's what all of us wonder. For me I like things to be natural, so I would actually never ask unless it turns out the conversation goes there.

For instance, once we were sitting at a bar and a guy came in. She said he is so handsome. And said it by herlself. So I took the very clear occasion to push the conversation.
I agree with you I would love for it to be natural. We’ve had conversations about it and she seems to be open to the idea. She once went on a business trip by herself and we would talk about how it would be awesome if she were to get gang banged by strangers. I encouraged her to be flirty and slutty during her trip and she would her extremely horny.
I think she would go for it if we were to go on vacation where no one would know anything about is and it would stay a secret between us.
 
I agree with you I would love for it to be natural. We’ve had conversations about it and she seems to be open to the idea. She once went on a business trip by herself and we would talk about how it would be awesome if she were to get gang banged by strangers. I encouraged her to be flirty and slutty during her trip and she would her extremely horny.
I think she would go for it if we were to go on vacation where no one would know anything about is and it would stay a secret between us.
I agree! That would be great situation if it was to happen
 
It sounds like she LOVES feeling like a slut, at least in her fantasies, so it's a matter of taking the next step.
Just ask her next time what's holding her back? What is she afraid for. Listen to her and try to make sure to take those fears away.

She might be scared you will then demand to fuck other women, or that you will stop loving her or leaving her.

What you could do is to find a tantric masseur for her and bring him over to your house or book an hotel. You can talk to the guy to take it easy and see if and how she enjoys being touched by another guy while laying naked on the massage table.

Another option to ease into it is to invite one or two guys to come to your hotel room to watch you both in action and jerk off.
You can leave it at that for the first time or who knows, there might be some touching and fingering involved if she's up for it ;)
 
Going from fantasy to reality is oftern the toughest part of turning your lady into a Hotwife. I met Elaine when I was 32 and she was 29. We were both divorced with no kids. After dating for several months I really started liking her. I had done some swinging and wife sharing with my ex wife. I don't think that led to our divorce, but one never knows. I got Elaine to pose for sexy polaroid pics and she didn't seem to object like some women do. For my birthday she surprised me with some lingerie photos done by a professional she had hired. I was more than pleased with that attitude. After about a year I decided to broach the idea of sharing her. Started with sex talk in the bedroom. While having sex she acted willing saying it might be fun, but nothing ever actually happened. I knew for our relationship to go further I was going to have to press the issue to see if she ! was all talk and no action. I kept telling her to pick out some guy she would like to fuck. I didn't care if it was old lover or friend. She said she could not approach someone about having sex with them if she really loved me.

I continued to press the issue and saying or asking her to just try it once. I finally got her to agree to at least meet someone if I set it up and he was a stranger. If she felt uncomfortable she could back out without so much as a kiss. I was at a business seminar and met a guy through a mutual friend. His name was Eric .We all went our for happy hour drinks and I got him aside and asked him if he wanted to have some fun with my girlfriend. I showed him a polaroid photo of her and explained that I wanted to watch her get fucked and participate at the same time. He was willing and I set up a meeting for the following night after our seminar.

When I told Elaine she started getting nervous about how to actually do this as she had never actually screwed more that one man at the same time. Since she had never met him we agreed we would invite him over for drinks and munchies. If she liked him and was willing to try she would invite him to the bedroom. She wanted to start alone with him and see how things went. I told her after some kissing and fondling she should know if it was going to work. If she wanted to back out I suggested she give him a blowjob to completion as a reward for coming over and trying. If she wanted to go through with complete sex she would signal or invite me in the bedroom.

Elaine wore garters and hose, no panties, under a front button summer dress. Everybody seemed to get along when he arrived. Elaine seemed hesitant to ask him to the bedroom. Eric excused himself to use the bathroom and I checked with her to see if she was still up for it and she said yes but just did not know how to bring up the subject. When he came back I simply asked him if he would like to take my lovely girl to bed. He said sure and off they went leaving me nervous and hoping for the best. They left the door partially open and I could hear idle chit chat for a couple of minutes, then the talking stopped. After several more minutes I slowly opened the door to see Elaine on her back and Eric's head buried under her dress. She smiled and waved me in and the party started.
Good Luck
 
I think the hot wife / cuckolding ‘conversation’ is always going to be a weird one, even for those of us engaged in this as a lifestyle.

I urged subtly, and not so subtly to KK for nearly twenty years, to consider sex with other men. The majority of that was pillow-talk - which most of the time brought KK into blissful orgasms, fantasizing about it. However, and despite that she repeatedly cheated on me, KK refused to consider any form of open/active hot wifing/cuckolding, at least in which I was an involved, direct participant.

Then one day, out of the blue, on her own, KK did it - she picked up another guy to fuck, brought him to our hotel suite, and banged him for hours.

It was definitely hit and miss after that first time, for about the first two years, before we generally figured stuff out.

“Pre hot wife” days, I tried dozens of times to have “the conversation” with KK - other than during pillow-talk, it was always awkward, and went sideways, mostly because KK’s case, she figured it was some kind of twisted plan on my part to get her OK for me to fuck other women, like an excuse maybe.

Sometimes those conversations turned into fights. Other times, she’d decide for some reason I needed help, or I was “sick” for wanting her to fuck another man.

Even though KK is actively fucking any man she chooses these days, there are still awkward, weird elements involved.

There are times I know she wants to fuck a certain guy, even if I raise an objection for some reason. There are also times I have to cajole, or have that awkward conversation with an encounter candidate; stuff like “My wife really wants to fuck you,” or “Would you like to fuck my wife while I watch…” When it gets awkward for whatever reason, I’ve learned to get past it, and get to the objective - getting KK access to hard, strange cock.
 
It’s been a couple of years since I started to have this fantasy about my wife fucking other men. It all started slowly by asking her to dirty talk during sex. In the last two years or so, while fucking, she seems to enjoy being called a slut and a whore. She also seems to get extra wet when she says that she loves being treated like a whore. In the beginning she was reluctant to use any type of sex toy, until I decided to purchase a realistic 10 inch dildo. We used it once the first year, however, lately she has be more eager to have it all inside her Pussy. During causal conversations, she seems to be open to the idea of getting fucked by other men, but the en she appears to change her mind.

How do I ask her without making her feel weird? Any rules that any of you have that would help her be more open to it? Anything tips before moving into that direction?

Listen to podcasts like Front Porch Swingers as a couple to gain more insight about the lifestyle........
 
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Update: My wife seems to be a lot more open to the idea of Fucking another man. She seems to really enjoy for me to call her a slut and to talk about her Pussy being stretched by a big cock. She loves when I tell her that we’ll be going on vacation, just the two of us, and find a big cock for her. I guess we have now transition from bedroom talk to actually planning it. Feedback is appreciated.
 

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I have the same issue. I've had the same fantasy for 3-4, maybe 5 years now. It's been fustrating to say the least. She's very much into dirty talk during sex. When i talk about another guy fucking her during sex she's all over it. Says how much she would love it. Engages me in the dirty talk conversation. For example how great it would be to have another guy cum all over her tits.

A few years ago on my 45th birthday we visited a sex club - she's 9 years younger than me. Her idea! She found it, and took me there. She's not shy. She walked around that sex club pretty much naked. We even had sex together in the 'couples room". Again she was completely naked sucking my dick and then sat on my dick when there were other people around us having sex. So shortly after that experience having returned from vacation i started getting agressive with the dirty talk conversation, ie: how i wanted to bring this to a reality - find her a bull. She started to get emotional - next thing you know tears. So frustrating! I thought we were so close.

After that experience i was turned off. I didn't even want to have sex with her anymore. I feel like she had been leading me on. Needless to say the sex has been a lot less frequent. And no more dirty talk. I know it wasn't the best move - but somehow, i thought, maybe if i deprive her of sex she'll either dump me, or cheat on me. The cheating would have been great.

Well, that hasn't worked either. So, after about 6 months of either very limited sex or vanilla sex, I started the sex talk again a few nights ago. I read a hotwife blog written by a hotwife, and she suggested that the only way to get a wife to take the plunge is to lead her there by making her feel confident and sexy so she'll want to be a hotwife, and being open with each others wants and needs. Start with porn etc. and continue with a diet of videos in the 2 guys and a girl genre.

Anyway, she was very receptive again during the dirty talk sex. I was very explicit telling her how important this was for me and how i would love for her to join me in this adventure. We even watched a couple MFM vidos (sensual ones) while we had sex. It really turn her on. Again, very receptive, saying how she would love to have a threesome. Meet a guy in a hotel and then bring him back to our room. She even said she was looking for another sex club in spain (we were planning a vacation in may that didn't happen - thanks covid!). I actually was surprised and delighted when she told me). She mentioned she would love to bring a girl into our sex play, she said how increadibly hot it would be to press their breasts together! I suggested we set up an online profile together and find some guys we both like. She said how hot it would be to text a guy back and forth!!! She really responded to the video i chose and watched it intensly - said things like "yeah, fuck her pussy", "she must be so wet with those two guys", while she watched.

So i think she's moving in the right direction. It's just not fast enough for me. I was really hoping that the next day she would bring up our conversation. Maybe say, "hey, remember that conversation we had last night? That was incredibly hot! Do you want to play around on Match.com?" But she hasn't said anything. She's either super hot, and wet, and into it when sex is happing. But then goes cold when we're out of the bedroom.

She's so hot, and i really want to share her. If Sunny Leone and Jenaveve Jolie had a love child - that's what she looks like, maybe with an extra 20 lbs. She has beautiful natural breasts. I've never made her cum by fucking her - only with my mouth. I know she could easily take a bigger cock and really enjoy it. She mentioned early on in our relationship she had a short relationship with a guy with a big dick, and i don't remember her saying she hated it!!

I feel like it's a little like skydiving. It's so scary when that plane door opens, but when your chute opens and you glide down to the ground you wonder why the hell you hadn't done this sooner. You want to do it again right away! I feel like if I can just get her comfortable enough to take that leap, there'd be no holding her back.

If anyone has anymore advice on how to move this along quicker i'd really appreciate it!! Sorry for the long post - just had to get that off my chest :)
“A few years ago on my 45th birthday we visited a sex club - she's 9 years younger than me. Her idea! She found it, and took me there. She's not shy. She walked around that sex club pretty much naked. We even had sex together in the 'couples room". Again she was completely naked sucking my dick and then sat on my dick when there were other people around us having sex. So shortly after that experience having returned from vacation i started getting agressive with the dirty talk conversation, ie: how i wanted to bring this to a reality - find her a bull. She started to get emotional - next thing you know tears. So frustrating! I thought we were so close.”

While reading this particular part, I couldn’t help but wonder if she had possibly hooked up with someone or more, and that she either felt really guilty or that things didn’t go too well, causing her to get emotional. I think I would have payed more attention and tried to pry out what made her that way, it might explain her sudden change of heart. Just a thought..
 
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For us, it took decades of pillow-talk, fantasy and role-play, numerous disastrous affairs and one-night stands on both our parts, before KK finally agreed to fuck other men openly, involving me, and living an “open” hot wife lifestyle.

It was incredibly frustrating, especially to see, feel, and hear KK respond to every dirty, sick, perverted fantasy I whispered in her ear, but in the end deny any real-world performance.

We had a ‘transition phase’ in which she was fucking other men, but excluding me from the details, participation, or any of the action. Then one night, while we were traveling on a mutual business/pleasure trip, KK leapt from the cliff so to speak, and she brought a guy up to our hotel suite, and fucked him in front of me. I will never forget it - every single detail.

I don’t know of any productive advice - other than being honest, and telling her how you feel, that you support her being with other men.
 
I think the hot wife / cuckolding ‘conversation’ is always going to be a weird one, even for those of us engaged in this as a lifestyle.

I urged subtly, and not so subtly to KK for nearly twenty years, to consider sex with other men. The majority of that was pillow-talk - which most of the time brought KK into blissful orgasms, fantasizing about it. However, and despite that she repeatedly cheated on me, KK refused to consider any form of open/active hot wifing/cuckolding, at least in which I was an involved, direct participant.

Then one day, out of the blue, on her own, KK did it - she picked up another guy to fuck, brought him to our hotel suite, and banged him for hours.

It was definitely hit and miss after that first time, for about the first two years, before we generally figured stuff out.

“Pre hot wife” days, I tried dozens of times to have “the conversation” with KK - other than during pillow-talk, it was always awkward, and went sideways, mostly because KK’s case, she figured it was some kind of twisted plan on my part to get her OK for me to fuck other women, like an excuse maybe.

Sometimes those conversations turned into fights. Other times, she’d decide for some reason I needed help, or I was “sick” for wanting her to fuck another man.

Even though KK is actively fucking any man she chooses these days, there are still awkward, weird elements involved.

There are times I know she wants to fuck a certain guy, even if I raise an objection for some reason. There are also times I have to cajole, or have that awkward conversation with an encounter candidate; stuff like “My wife really wants to fuck you,” or “Would you like to fuck my wife while I watch…” When it gets awkward for whatever reason, I’ve learned to get past it, and get to the objective - getting KK access to hard, strange cock.
That sounds very similar to my wife.
 
So I decided to finally make a move. In the past, we have discussed a vacation to Cancun and while doing our research we came across Temptations. She pretty much has an idea of what it is that happens, or can happen there.

Tired of the slow progress I decided to book a vacation to Cancun and we will be staying at Temptations during May. I was nervous to tell her as I thought that she would not accept staying at that resort. To my surprise she got very excited and is already making plans. As I mentioned before she knows the stories about that place, yet she did not back out from going.
We will see what happens but I have to admit that I am very excited!!!

Any experiences/tips/stories about temptations or a similar resort?