I’m actually starting to get a little concerned. Wife is a very vanilla and repressed super curvy bbw. I am seriously underendowed, and can’t really even penetrate. She is pretty uncomfortable with talk of other men, and even watching porn. For a while she was willing to tell me I had a little dick while she jerked me off, and that was incredibly arousing…but she is no longer comfortable doing that. So “sex” is her jerking me off, then me making her cum a bunch of times with the hitachi magic wand. For her, this could be what we do for sex for the rest of our lives. But I’m getting less and less aroused, and it’s less fulfilling every time. Basically, I’m not really turned on anymore at the idea of the two of us having sex. I am MASSIVELY turned on at the thought of her having sex with other men, and I can only truly get off in a fulfilling way if I think about that. So I’m frustrated and concerned about our sexual relationship. Just needed to vent, but any thoughts/suggestions are welcome.
Getting less aroused by conventional sex with wife
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Your not the only one. I am more turned on by the thought of watching her have sex with other men. Feel free to message me if you want.
I jerk off all the time to guys who would look good fucking her. And bring it up whenever I get to fuck her.
This is not an uncommon experience. I went through several phases over the haul, during which I could only get hard and cum visualizing KK fucking another man, or men.
When she tells who she wants I cum almost instantly.
I’m sure! When she was briefly willing to tell my that I had a little dick, I was shocked at how intensely erotic it was…I came very quickly and very hard.
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I too have a tiny penis and totally get off on watching other better endowed guys fuck her. As far as me fucking her goes I have to say I actually get more satisfaction from wanking and watching than fucking her because I enjoy the sph kick as well as seeing her being satisfied (I have never made her cum with my penis) I am fortunate to have a partner who is into this and she gives me other sph kicks.
I've definitely found that I'm way more turned on by the thought of her fucking guys than I am by actually fucking her.
Always get hard while fucking my wife while we talk about who she would want to fuck instead of me. Unfortunately she lost interest in me so we don`t have sex that much.
I think this is normal. I can't orgasm during sex with my wife any more at all. I barely even have penetration sex since we use the dildo. When she does let me have sex she no longer pretends to be enjoying it and after a short time she asks for the larger dildo. Which I'm fine with since fucking her loose sloppy pussy and her just smiling at me isn't much of a turn on. But I know she would like me to orgasm that way...
I routinely wank thinking about my wife being with another man and/or humiliating my small floppy dick. For me this is normal, but I also enjoy PIV and oral sex with my wife. I enjoy the variety - lone masturbation plus great sex. I only wish I could be her cuck!
I just can't get the friction in her vagina. And seeing her grow less interested and bored is just a turn off
Use a sleeve, it really brings her back to enjoying penetrative sex and then she can cum with a big dick. My wife is in the process of realizing she does enjoying bigger dick and cums with one.
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Have you ever suggested using a dildo, or you could tell her you want to try something different you believe she is going to enjoy, if she agrees then start with oral sex and as she becomes aroused rub a big lubricated dildo against her pussy, keep stimulating her clit as you rib, when she is really excited insert just a little bit of the dildo into her pussy, watch and listen to her reactions, let that be your guide as to how fast and deep to use the dildo. Don't stop licking and sucking on her clit, the combination of dildo and clit stimulation gives most women a good climax. if it has the desired effects, then expand the toy collection to simulate different cocks. This may get her thinking about real ones. It will be exciting and stimulating for you as well watching her enjoying your dildo play and the pleasure she's receiving from it.
We use a dildo and a sleeve, but she generally prefers the dildo the most and for me to jerk off while she fucks it and we pretend it's another man.
I like regular sex with my wife BUT 9/10 times while we are doing anything I'm always imagining in the back of my mind her doing it to someone else.
Even when I'm pounding her silly I'm picturing what another guy would be feeling pounding her.
You are not alone, its my favorite thing to think about during sex, and gets me hornier than anything.
Even when I'm pounding her silly I'm picturing what another guy would be feeling pounding her.
You are not alone, its my favorite thing to think about during sex, and gets me hornier than anything.
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