Hotwife Lifestyle meets Sugar Daddy Experience... Young married couple seeking advice. MF(23)

Should She Stay or Should She Go


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James and Jacqueline here, recently Married and happily in the hot wife lifestyle. Speaking specifically as James, we're writing to you because we're in an interesting predicament.

A little history on us, we're actually a VERY young couple. Both of us are 23, attractive and fun. She's from the midwest I'm from the east, and we both live together in a NE city now. We're very in love, and have a lot of amazing sex despite the lifestyle.

Our history with her as a hot wife is... while we were dating, Jacquie met a 33 year old man who is very well off and her type (she loves dark middle eastern men go figure). Anyway we can call him Michael. So Michael and her met and immediately after (because of our interest in sharing her) she found an arrangement where he could be her sugar daddy.

Now I know that the Sugar lifestyle doesn't normally mix with the hot wife one, but it works for us and I think that's the most important thing to remember here. She very much enjoys feeling like a rich man's escort on dates and such. She calls him Daddy and he calls her Kitten, he gives her money and takes her out to places we would never be able to afford. In return she usually goes back to his place and they have a LOT of sex. So I like when she comes back home and we get to reconnect in the bedroom and she gets to tell me how much they had sex so on so on....

I've never really felt comfortable yet sharing her in our own bedroom. She hasn't worked up to that either. Side note: She does work at a rather scandalous private strip club for business men (the way it works is no stage, you meet girls at the bar take them into the big couch room in the back and you pay $20 a song to have them give you a very hands on lap dance which includes kissing, nipple sucking, and well as much as it's against the rules, the discussion of going home with the client). She loves the money, we think it's hot and it totally keeps things fresh the 2 nights a week she comes home looking like a slut)

Well on June 23rd we got married and stupidly before we both had to go out of town to see family (dates overlapped so we've been separated for 2 week), with 2 more weeks to go until we reconnect to go on our 'honeymoon', which is just us hopping around cities out west.

Anyway so you understand why we're writing. Basically last night Michael reached out Jacquie and offered to take her to burning man. Well, by that he means he wants to take her with him to burning man and pretty much fuck her in his private spot at burning man probably 3-4 times a day (at least) for the entire time. She gets a free ticket and everything and all she has to be is his cum slut. This sounds fucking HOT to us, however since she's been out of town she's hooked up with a man and been on tinder.... but what's most important we COMMUNICATE like all the time. I know if she's out at Burning Man cell service will be pretty much non existent. Well with travel included its 10 days of us having to spend apart AGAIN. We're both so 50/50 on this situation.

One one hand she gets to go experience Burning Man and potentially part-take in group sex (something we've talked about only doing together and neither of us have experienced) and getting fucked in the desert by her Sugar Daddy (awesome). One the other hand neither of us are sure if we'll be able to even handle the level of separation and distance in a situation that's so sexually provocative. She's still talking to him about details and practicality so we have time to arrange what we thinks best. We're leaning towards her staying and we just make some of our own fun back at home and she can just see him when he's back in town or whenever honestly.

Wondering if anyone (couples preferably) have any advice/ experience in the Hotwife meets Sugar Daddy lifestyle. We're really not opposed to her going with him... is it just overkill?

Anyway hope to hear back from you all!

Daddy and Kitty
 

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Adf49

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Sounds to me like the two of you have already agreed on the decision of her staying so you two can spend time together. No matter how great the opportunity seems for her to go to burning man, if you want to be together that be together. No reason to go for fear of a lost opportunity and wind up with a regret that could eventually become a wedge in what otherwise seems like a great relationship.
 
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Sounds to me like the two of you have already agreed on the decision of her staying so you two can spend time together. No matter how great the opportunity seems for her to go to burning man, if you want to be together that be together. No reason to go for fear of a lost opportunity and wind up with a regret that could eventually become a wedge in what otherwise seems like a great relationship.


That feels right
 

ntcuck

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Your words say she stays with you. At 23 you two have lots of time ahead of you to pursure adventures like burning man etc. You only get so much time to build your relationship.
 
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TOTALLY awesome relationship...that being said, I concur with the above, the fact that Thier is a question at all, plus how the two of you sound.... No real missed opportunity...she should stay, and the two of you are actually good with that.