She seems receptive....now what?

I've read through a million posts and definitely have an idea of where I stand. But I'd like some direct advice, as I have a feeling there is a good chance this happens. Read my only other post in New Members to get a little more insight. I'll just start this post after I told her my fantasy and some things she's done or said in response. Also, when talking we've identified ourselves as Stag/Vixen.

- After I told her mid 2020 she pulled down her pants and showed me her pussy was literally dripping.
- She watched DP porn for the first time after we talked and even let me fuck her in the ass while she rode a dildo. But that happened once 3 years ago.
- We've made jokes about how we'd never do anything anywhere near our hometown. But never elaborating or saying she'd actually do it.
- She said she'd "let me know when she's ready"
- She's said "you wanna watch a man fuck your wife" I kinds stumbled and didn't know what to say, so I said that's half true rather than just saying "Yes"
- She asked me if I'm a cuck, which I felt she was looking down on me. She loves that I'm a big mans man and I don't want to make her think I'm soft.
- She said "you cum quick, if we have a mfm threesome and you nut am I just suppose to stop" and "what would you be doing if I continue, sit in the corner like a loser" She def made me a little worried with that comment.

I'll add more as I remember, but with more insight into my situation how should I proceed. We are early 40's and live in Fla with a little money so we are able to Travel.
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So, here's what I did at that stage. My wife had a fairly avid little internet following, watching her masturbate with bigger and bigger toys, sucking me off, etc. Talking with her fans in between "shows" helped her expand upon her own fantasies and adapt to theirs, which helped later. Got her used to being blindfolded and on display while she listened to the men talk about her, and asking for things. When the "getting fucked by a stranger" fantasy hit it's peak, in the middle of her show, as she was coming on the big dildo picture, tied so she could mastubate but not get up from the couch, I pretended to hear something downstairs. Went into the hallway and down the stairs. Made noise on the stairs at one speed then sprinted silently to the door and knocked on it, then back a bit to make noise like I was answering the door. Then whispers and much shuffling. Saying "shhh" at the bottom of the stairs, i went back up, and into the room. She could hear me moving furniture out of the way. Then silently into the hall where I made clothing removal noises. Then back into the room where I murmered " Go ahead" to imaginary guy. In my hand, a lifelike dildo. It had a condom on it, because she had insisted she wouldn never fuck a stranger unprotected. I brushed it across her lips. Her mouth opened.... the condom fooled her for a long set of moments. I pulled it out of range. I let her feel my own hard on against her leg as i brushed the fake cock across her lips. She stabbed her mouth at it and started sucking. Her audience lost its mind, they were in on it. Amost a minute before she figured it out. I began planning her first outing after that.
 
So, here's what I did at that stage. My wife had a fairly avid little internet following, watching her masturbate with bigger and bigger toys, sucking me off, etc. Talking with her fans in between "shows" helped her expand upon her own fantasies and adapt to theirs, which helped later. Got her used to being blindfolded and on display while she listened to the men talk about her, and asking for things. When the "getting fucked by a stranger" fantasy hit it's peak, in the middle of her show, as she was coming on the big dildo picture, tied so she could mastubate but not get up from the couch, I pretended to hear something downstairs. Went into the hallway and down the stairs. Made noise on the stairs at one speed then sprinted silently to the door and knocked on it, then back a bit to make noise like I was answering the door. Then whispers and much shuffling. Saying "shhh" at the bottom of the stairs, i went back up, and into the room. She could hear me moving furniture out of the way. Then silently into the hall where I made clothing removal noises. Then back into the room where I murmered " Go ahead" to imaginary guy. In my hand, a lifelike dildo. It had a condom on it, because she had insisted she wouldn never fuck a stranger unprotected. I brushed it across her lips. Her mouth opened.... the condom fooled her for a long set of moments. I pulled it out of range. I let her feel my own hard on against her leg as i brushed the fake cock across her lips. She stabbed her mouth at it and started sucking. Her audience lost its mind, they were in on it. Amost a minute before she figured it out. I began planning her first outing after that.
Wow, what a hot story. You're a lucky man, have you guys progressed to the real thing?
 
You discuss with her what she’s okay doing, for now.. Just right now..

Maybe she’d enjoy an online sexting friend? (Hint, hint, I’m available. )

She sounds more comfortable discussing this than you. You need to step up and be more honest with her.
 
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You discuss with her what she’s okay doing, for now.. Just right now..

Maybe she’d enjoy an online sexting friend? (Hint, hint, I’m available. )

She sounds more comfortable discussing this than you. You need to step up and be more honest with her.
We have discussed some rules, and that may not even be the right word to use "rules" more like an agreement. Like she said "I'm not sucking anyone's dick" and I get that...In her mind that is all for the males pleasure and if she's going to do anything...it will be for her pleasure. So we've made jokes like "think of a MFM as us with a live dildo" In short, she likes to get dominated and she likes to get fucked. I can see her fucking before sucking all day.

As for she's more comfortable discussing...I'm not sure what I said to elude to that, but I'm always the one bringing it up. She engages but sometimes with just one word answers and thumbs up on my texts...so not super in depth.
 
We have discussed some rules, and that may not even be the right word to use "rules" more like an agreement. Like she said "I'm not sucking anyone's dick" and I get that...In her mind that is all for the males pleasure and if she's going to do anything...it will be for her pleasure. So we've made jokes like "think of a MFM as us with a live dildo" In short, she likes to get dominated and she likes to get fucked. I can see her fucking before sucking all day.

As for she's more comfortable discussing...I'm not sure what I said to elude to that, but I'm always the one bringing it up. She engages but sometimes with just one word answers and thumbs up on my texts...so not super in depth.
Stay on the "It's all about your pleasure, no one else's." message. Don't rush her.
Also, I'm happy to take charge and give her the domination she wants.
 
So she scheduled her post baby boob job today and said "When they are done, I'm showing anyone that asks" She opened up a little more last night and said that she loves when people watch her and want her. She just isn't sure she wants anyone touching her. UGH...
I would be more then happy to jus watch! As long as I could play w my cock 👿
 
I'll share my wife via DM if anyone wants to see the hottie I'm working with. But you have to chime in with some advice first..LOL
She sounds awesome give her time when she sees guys are really noticing her. It will get het mind and body stimulating. Witj all.respect how big did she change her breasts .Feel.free to ask me anything you can Pm me
It would be great to chat witj you Bob
 
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She sounds awesome give her time when she sees guys are really noticing her. It will get het mind and body stimulating. Witj all.respect how big did she change her breasts .Feel.free to ask me anything you can Pm me
It would be great to chat witj you Bob
 
She sounds awesome give her time when she sees guys are really noticing her. It will get het mind and body stimulating. Witj all.respect how big did she change her breasts .Feel.free to ask me anything you can Pm me
It would be great to chat witj you Bob
She kept her breasts the same size, just got a lift.
 
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