What does SHE get out of it?

[Hieronymo]

I read a lot about why the husbands want a hotwife, what they get out of it, but what does the wife get out of it? The obvious answer is guilt-free sex, but my wife if asked will tell you she doesn’t want that. She’ll also tell you she doesn’t see the point of a huge dick.

Guys will have opinions on this, but I’d really love to hear what women think, since it’s about their feelings.

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

My wife's doesn't frequent these sites. She likes the action but doesn't get anything out of talking about it. As we have worked through the ups and downs of this lifestyle, I have learned what she gets out of this. 1.) She enjoys being pursued, desired, etc., by other men. It is a confidence boost for her to attract and play with other men. 2.). She enjoys the variety. We have been together for 16 years and she played around with lots of guys before we met. If she had accepted that she could fuck anyone while I remained faithful, she would have started this lifestyle sooner. She didn't think it was fair to play if I didn't also and couldn't understand what I get out of it. That just took time and experience to work through. (And a guy/opportunity she wanted badly enough to take the risk). 3.) She also gets more attention from me when she plays. It makes me hot to know she is playing and I am always ready to play when she gets home.

She would have to speak to any other benefits, but she has made these three advantages clear to me during our extensive conversations. We have been in the lifestyle for nearly 3.5 years. During this time, she has played with 22 different men and 7 of them she met multiple times. I hope this helps.

 

[Trev802]

I read a lot about why the husbands want a hotwife, what they get out of it, but what does the wife get out of it? The obvious answer is guilt-free sex, but my wife if asked will tell you she doesn’t want that. She’ll also tell you she doesn’t see the point of a huge dick.

Guys will have opinions on this, but I’d really love to hear what women think, since it’s about their feelings.

Well it's complicated but us girls are conditioned to say one thing that is acceptable to societal norms although we may think something quite different. I am not saying your wife is being dishonest, we are all different but it is true most women answer questions like this in the way they have been taught they should. It took my husband years to make me understand my sexual needs where very different from what society had trained me to believe they were or should be. Katherine

 

[Jaybast]

My wife loves the attention of a lot of guys and girls. She was the same in high school. Having sex with lots of guys and girls. But now she can do it safely

 

[Nathaniel]

Well, I think it comes down to the attention and the boost in confidence/self esteem. in high school my wife was the nerdy chubby girl, and almost never had the attention of the boys. In college, however, she started being sexually active, and being more outgoing, which is where she got the attention from the guys. When she started going out with me, she was the sexy chubby girl all the boys were after, so thats what i think.

 

[Turbolovers088]

My wife gets treated like a queen and told how beautiful and sexy she is.that boosts her confidence alot.she gets excitement from shopping for sexy lingerie and bra knickers to wear for her Bull.She also loves the chase and being desired.The Huge thick cock is a bonus too.

 

[Hieronymo]

Well it's complicated but us girls are conditioned to say one thing that is acceptable to societal norms although we may think something quite different. I am not saying your wife is being dishonest, we are all different but it is true most women answer questions like this in the way they have been taught they should. It took my husband years to make me understand my sexual needs where very different from what society had trained me to believe they were or should be. Katherine

Hi Katherine, your hubby made you understand that? I’m interested to hear that. How did he do that?
My wife watches gangbang creampie porn and wants to have an MMF with her fuck machine and me. It seems like she’d be very down with adding other men to the mix. Her ex left her for the wife of a couple they hooked up with, so any talk involving others freaks her out, but adding guys seems like a win win for her.

 

[Loridan]

We are very very normal but we're into mfm with a guy we know. Wife is conservative and classy, sexy yes but never a slut. She won't talk about what we do but it's easy to see she likes it. While he's with us it's like she can't get enough sex, we fuck her every way you can imagine till him and I are beat. Always 3 rounds for him, 2 for me. There's been nights he's gone 4, I've gone 3 a couple of times. Next day she's back to normal but she's horny as hell.

 

[kort6776]

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