Words of Wisdom from Experienced Couples, Singles, Cucks and Bulls.

[PaulLani]

When people are just starting out in the lifestyle, be it cuckold, swinging, gangbangs or general debauchery the lack of experience can slow things down or discourage them from continuing on.
All those who have experience can put a short message of advice here to help those who are just starting out.
Post as many as you want but only one piece of advice per post.

 

[PaulLani]

My first piece of advice to those wishing to join the world of cuckold or wife sharing is be sure you it's what you really want.
The main thing is to make sure your marriage or relationship stays intact.
If you have any real doubts, don't do anything until your sure. Start off slow.
Make sure the wife wants to do it. In my early days when I was playing solo online, the 1st couple I met was all about the husband.
The wife told me quietly on our 1st meeting that she wasn't into it but he'd be angry if I told him what she said.
To cut it short, I fucked her many times and when I told her that I'd tell him I had a new partner ( a lie) and couldn't meet up anymore she asked me if I'd keep fucking her or he'd just find someone else. Needless to say they are no longer together.
Men, be prepared for the fact that she will like fucking other men more than you. Forbidden cock feels very naughty and more exciting. If you can't live with that, don't do it.
A friend once told me that he'd love to try a MFM with his wife but he's worried she'd like the other guy more. I told him "of course she will, that's the whole idea. Stolen fruit, fresh meat, she'll enjoy every inch of his cock' but she'll love you for giving her the pleasure.
Women, if it makes you feel dirty in a bad way. Don't do it.
If you are both comfortable in your relationship and you both want to please the each other, it's an amazing and satisfying lifestyle. Win, win.
Jealousy can add to the excitement or ...... the relationship. Make sure it's the former.

 

[Biguy916]

My first piece of advice to those wishing to join the world of cuckold or wife sharing is be sure you it's what you really want.
The main thing is to make sure your marriage or relationship stays intact.
If you have any real doubts, don't do anything until your sure. Start off slow.
Make sure the wife wants to do it. In my early days when I was playing solo online, the 1st couple I met was all about the husband.
The wife told me quietly on our 1st meeting that she wasn't into it but he'd be angry if I told him what she said.
To cut it short, I fucked her many times and when I told her that I'd tell him I had a new partner ( a lie) and couldn't meet up anymore she asked me if I'd keep fucking her or he'd just find someone else. Needless to say they are no longer together.
Men, be prepared for the fact that she will like fucking other men more than you. Forbidden cock feels very naughty and more exciting. If you can't live with that, don't do it.
A friend once told me that he'd love to try a MFM with his wife but he's worried she'd like the other guy more. I told him "of course she will, that's the whole idea. Stolen fruit, fresh meat, she'll enjoy every inch of his cock' but she'll love you for giving her the pleasure.
Women, if it makes you feel dirty in a bad way. Don't do it.
If you are both comfortable in your relationship and you both want to please the each other, it's an amazing and satisfying lifestyle. Win, win.
Jealousy can add to the excitement or ...... the relationship. Make sure it's the former.

When my wife first brought up the idea of her being with another man I was very excited about it and I never considered being jealous. After she started fucking other men I would sometimes feel jealous of her overwhelming desire to be with them while leaving me out. She sensed that I was not involved enough and encouraged me to begin sucking their cocks. I finally reluctantly agreed to sucking one of the guys and I discovered I truly enjoyed sucking him. After that I realized I needed more cocks and she knows I really want it. She loves when I suck their cocks before she fucks them and I look forward to licking up their cum

 

[PaulLani]

When my wife first brought up the idea of her being with another man I was very excited about it and I never considered being jealous. After she started fucking other men I would sometimes feel jealous of her overwhelming desire to be with them while leaving me out. She sensed that I was not involved enough and encouraged me to begin sucking their cocks. I finally reluctantly agreed to sucking one of the guys and I discovered I truly enjoyed sucking him. After that I realized I needed more cocks and she knows I really want it. She loves when I suck their cocks before she fucks them and I look forward to licking up their cum

The right kind of jealousy makes the experience so much more exciting.
It's nice that your wife brought up the subject because 90% of the time it's the husband that first suggests it.
She obviously likes watching cocks hanging out of your mouth as much as you like balls hanging out of her.
Keep having fun.

 

[Biguy916]

The right kind of jealousy makes the experience so much more exciting.
It's nice that your wife brought up the subject because 90% of the time it's the husband that first suggests it.
She obviously likes watching cocks hanging out of your mouth as much as you like balls hanging out of her.
Keep having fun.

Thanks, We are both very happy with the way things turned out

 

[PaulLani]

Thanks, We are both very happy with the way things turned out

Rub his balls as he fucks her or lay under her 69 and lick her clit as he fucks her.

 

[Robert Smith]

I have shared my wife for 30 years. The best advice I can give you is to be very open with each about what you want to do and what you expect your mate to do. Good Luck

 

[Kemessia]

https://wife-shаring.com/profiles/id86991

 

[PaulLani]

I have shared my wife for 30 years. The best advice I can give you is to be very open with each about what you want to do and what you expect your mate to do. Good Luck

Absolutely. In spite of all the talk about a "cuck" has no rights or the wife doesn't need to tell the "cuck" who she's fucking, that doesn't work for long.
Honesty and openess is how it works. Both man and woman needs to get some king of pleasure from the experience.
If the man actually gets off on not knowing when, where or whom shes fucking and that has been agreed upon by both, then all's good with that.
With us, we both have the right to say yay or nay. Obviously if Lani really wants something, I will never stop her and if I have doubts about something, she will abstain. As will I if the situation is reversed. Yes I do get to fuck other women.
Keep having fun

 

[PaulLani]

To men starting out.
Firstly I'd be using, and do, an adult meeting site instead of a relationship site.
When I first started out using these sites, I continuously offered lunch, dinner, drinks etc.
Eventually I realised the fact that the woman and couples on these sites are looking for a fuck. Not a long conversation over a Chardonnay.
If she's gone to the trouble of meeting you, unless you fuck it up, she's going to fuck you.
For every 10 women I met over this time I fucked 9. Not always twice.
If they let you you into their house, again unless the somehow fuck it up, you'll get you cock in.
She hasn't invited you in for tea and biscuits.
To be short. She's met you for a fuck. Be confident and don't overdo the introduction. The more you talk, the more chance you'll fuck it up.

 

[PaulLani]

To men starting out.
Firstly I'd be using, and do, an adult meeting site instead of a relationship site.
When I first started out using these sites, I continuously offered lunch, dinner, drinks etc.
Eventually I realised the fact that the woman and couples on these sites are looking for a fuck. Not a long conversation over a Chardonnay.
If she's gone to the trouble of meeting you, unless you fuck it up, she's going to fuck you.
For every 10 women I met over this time I fucked 9. Not always twice.
If they let you you into their house, again unless the somehow fuck it up, you'll get you cock in.
She hasn't invited you in for tea and biscuits.
To be short. She's met you for a fuck. Be confident and don't overdo the introduction. The more you talk, the more chance you'll fuck it up.

I agree with Paul.
If I've met a man or couple online, I go to meet them with the intention of getting fucked.
Unless the guy is a complete fuckwit or grub, I'll fuck him unless he has nowhere to do it. Then he may miss out. Obviously if I like him I'll meet up another time at a motel or somewhere.
I must admit I've fucked guys for the reason of getting it over and done with, with no intention of ever meeting them again.
I'm sure the guys don't care much about that, as long as they get a load away.
So, if you're meeting a woman, have a place lined up to fuck in.
Better to have it and not need it then need it and not have it.
Lani