I am new here and wife and I have not taken the final step into the lifestyle, but we do a lot of role play.  She also likes dancing with other men.  This weekend I will be booking her a hotel room in Dallas for a fun night for her to explore by herself.  More than likely she will not adventure out past the hotel bar.  She is very hot, but shy!  I feel a lot of men are intimidated by her. I think she just needs the reassurance from someone to take that next step.