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If you do share your wife
With a repeat guy, they know each others likes...
Is it just sex? Hard fucking in several positions? Do they kiss? How many times will he cum?
Or does it get romantic? Make out type long kissing ? Lovemaking type sex?
Does she hold him like she's getting banged hard of hold him because she likes what he's doing with her?
Do you only watch or take a turn?
What about a stranger ?
For us we do this with same guy, we're all a good fit. It's a lot of sensual lovemaking type sex but it does get hard core sometimes. Wife likes long slow sex for sure but when he takes charge and flips her over she sticks her butt out so he can really go to town. Seeing her muscles keeping her body tight as she pushes back against him drives me wild.
 
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If you do share your wife - Yes we share
With a repeat guy, they know each others likes... - with couples
Is it just sex? - just sex
Hard fucking in several positions? - yes after a few times of calmer sex
Do they kiss? - it happens on occasion when cum is involved or when sucking cocks
How many times will he cum? - I have been cummed in over a dozen times, multiple holes in a session
Or does it get romantic? - nope - its sex
Make out type long kissing ? - nope, nada, no way
Lovemaking type sex? - nope, nada, no way
Does she hold him like she's getting banged hard of hold him because she likes what he's doing with her? - no holding, no cuddling, just sucking, eating, fucking
Do you only watch or take a turn? We do most everything together unless he is fucking the wife by my side and I am fucking the husband at the same time
What about a stranger ? - nope, nada, no way
Fucking next to each other is Soooooo freakin HOT!!!! We love to kiss each other while fucking others.
 
I've got a hand full of FWBs. I fuck bareback with them 2-3 times a month. They cum inside all my holes as often as they can ( normally 2 to 3 times one guy ) and it's just pure sex, Nothing romatically. I just wnat to fuck them and want their cum. That's it. Nothing more. 😉
Just as it should be.
 
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My wife has been at this for 40 plus years, she has had lots of married men I think she just gets a perverse kick out of fucking somebody else's husband, some off them have lasted several years and like her I feel a repeat lover is much better than a one night stand, she normally forms and emotional attachment with them and that makes her much more keen to fuck them more regular as they supplied a lot of her sex over the years, she also prefers bareback as she has never liked condoms at all so for her a regular partner is safer, one guy had her on and off for over 20 years so he knew all there was to know about her and could make her cum very quickly every time, others including her current boyfriend have usually lasted for or five years, the current one fucked for for four years before his wife found out and she now keeps a very close eye on him so they don't manage it as often as they would like, he is excellent and they play together for hours when they get the chance enjoying anal as well as bondage and a bit of punishment included, so we have always gone down the long term route we are still together so the attachments they form when fucking her are not quite the same as those formed in our marriage.
 
Personally I think it's better if theirs's some sort of connection not just a quick fuck. (like having some similar interests)
Without having some sort of connection you might as well go to an escort!
Some people emotionally need a connection as much as the sex!
Also I am for plenty of foreplay!
No I definitely would not get involved romantically! (I know theirs's always a danger that this can happen)
Certainly their can be some kissing but not too romantic!
Definitely would have to be with a complete stranger, someone outside all my connections.
In my opinion it's better to have a fixed partner as the sex should be better after the first time(s).
Quite often one is nervous the first time and it takes time to get used to the new partner and know his/her likes/dislikes.
 
I’m not saying my wife didn’t have any “regulars”. There were 4 from her old high school days that still came by for some fun. All three were happily married, but knew and fucked her for years before I came along. If there were any romance between them it would have reared it’s ugly he’d years ago. I’m talking no one new. They don’t get the chance to ”get to know her”.

I absolutely agree with your first sentence. My wife and I both get a perverse kick out of her getting fucked by another woman’s husband. Knowing there is a wife sitting at home somewhere thinking her husband is out with the boys, and I’m sitting there looking at his bare cock buried up to his balls in my wife’s cunt…… well, I just love it.
I have never seen her getting it from another man, she wasn't up for it and felt it was too kinky so I let her go it alone, she had one guy that was a bachelor, he lived a few minutes walk from our house and she eventually went to work for him he was a greyhound trainer so they were alone together every day, he was a lot bigger than me and would have her 3/4 times a week at one time and she was always ready for his cock, so she was completely free to do anything she wanted, something she has been very grateful for over the years.
 
And that’s exactly why we avoided repeats. Less chance for emotional involvement. For us it was simple.

No kissing
No romance
No meeting alone
No weekends away together
I “always” watch.

And most importantly, they don’t “make love” to her ……. They “fuck” her.
love to watch my wife make love with our repeat Bulls but its also hot watching her with new men, especially when they are friends of friends and she goes all out to make a good impression for him.
 
Not normally, but it has happened. We’ve picked up guys in bar‘s/club‘s that we found out after they fucked her that they knew one or more of our friends. But since they were married also, they knew better than to say anything. That’s another reason we try to stick to married men only.
I am married. Do I qualify?
 
If you do share your wife
With a repeat guy, they know each others likes...
Is it just sex? Hard fucking in several positions? Do they kiss? How many times will he cum?
Or does it get romantic? Make out type long kissing ? Lovemaking type sex?
Does she hold him like she's getting banged hard of hold him because she likes what he's doing with her?
Do you only watch or take a turn?
What about a stranger ?
For us we do this with same guy, we're all a good fit. It's a lot of sensual lovemaking type sex but it does get hard core sometimes. Wife likes long slow sex for sure but when he takes charge and flips her over she sticks her butt out so he can really go to town. Seeing her muscles keeping her body tight as she pushes back against him drives me wild.
Let me preface by saying if these questions were asked when we first started the answers would be much different, our marriage has grown a lot. Anyway yes there has been several where she had an on-going thing with. She has fucked other guys in just about every position, some hard some slow. Lots' of kissing some more passionate then others. The most a guys has cum is 3 times in one session. Holds him for both reasons. Only been romantic with one, a old boyfriend from high school. I have watched and taken turns but prefer to wait and have my turn alone after he has gone. There were two that were strangers to her but not me (long story).
 
If you do share your wife
With a repeat guy, they know each others likes...
Is it just sex? Hard fucking in several positions? Do they kiss? How many times will he cum?
Or does it get romantic? Make out type long kissing ? Lovemaking type sex?
Does she hold him like she's getting banged hard of hold him because she likes what he's doing with her?
Do you only watch or take a turn?
What about a stranger ?
For us we do this with same guy, we're all a good fit. It's a lot of sensual lovemaking type sex but it does get hard core sometimes. Wife likes long slow sex for sure but when he takes charge and flips her over she sticks her butt out so he can really go to town. Seeing her muscles keeping her body tight as she pushes back against him drives me wild.
We met a very local bbc, who became not only our friend (still is) but our regular bull, would even go to say, he became Hayley’s lover, by that I mean Hayley became emotionally attached to him, she felt guilty at first, but I reasoned with her that it was expected due to the regularity, and I was ok with how she felt, as ultimately I trusted her and knew it was the sex he gave her, also even though she felt feelings for him, he was not emotionally attached to her, yes he enjoyed her company and relationship, he was not interested in having anything but a sexual relationship with her. We even managed to integrate him into our circle of friends and family, even holidays abroad, the three of us. He just new how to turn her on and satisfy her in ways no one else had, watching them was incredible, the way she responded to every touch, the kissing and sensuality, the little things like the way she wrapped her legs around him, or clawed his back when he came inside her, her orgasms were so intense, she did things with him she hadn’t done with me, her first anal, her first dp.
When we meet new bulls, it can be hit and miss, and you got to start over again with the getting to know likes dislikes etc.
My only involvement is if asked by wife
 
This is exactly the opposite for me. I find this entirely unfulfilling and would NEVER agree to be in the lifestyle like this. This sounds exactly like what we see at swingers clubs so often. Just meet up with somebody and head to the back to go through the motions of sex. It doesn't "turn me on" at all and isn't worth the effort to do it. In other words, all of the "normal" things you would do to entice one another into a DESIRE for sex. I dislike going through the motions and I have actually kicked a guy out of my room a couple of times for being a bad kisser. I just have to have a great kisser. I love "dating" and the "romance" that goes along with it.

It's so exciting to go for a weekend with another guy and actually "be his" for that time. Hold hands , small talk, romance and great sex. Even if he is married, I prefer the romantic getaway. Repeat sex with my favorite lovers is a complete turn on. I love threesomes and especially with my husband and another man. That said, I don't want him around and involved in my sex life and personal life all the time. I do record my sessions most of the time (with the permission of the guys). Men say and do things with me when I'm alone with them, that they would never dare to do with my husband right there. The way they talk to me, the rougher treatment, taking whatever it is they want, etc.

I really enjoy getting "picked up" at bars (especially hotel bars) when I'm in the mood. It's just a kink of mine and that would never work under your rules. I meet guys skiing, at the lake and on vacation especially. I tell my husband I have a date or I just go on my own for awhile and tell him later. I love the freedom of being "single" when it comes to my sex life. That is the real turn on. Anyway, it works for us..

Mrs Hw
I agree with what you say!
If all you are doing is having "quick sex" you might as well go to an escort!
Yes I want to find a woman with whom we have something in common and with whom we can have a couple of hours of fun
and if we click to meet again (with all due respect to she being married!)
 
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The quick sex thing....that's not how we roll.
We do this with a guy we know pretty regularly. He's a cool guy, we all get along and enjoy a night together.
It's a fun, relaxed night for us. We take turns with her. She enjoys long makeout sessions with him. There's hot, hard core fucking yes but also a LOT of slow sensual lovemaking sex too. Nothing rough or crazy happens just a lot of sex. Typical night he goes three rounds I go twice. There's been nights he gets four in. We do this together, watching each other. Last few visits he does her once more in the livingroom without me watching befor he leaves. She and I always have a nice slow fuck after he's gone before we go to sleep.
 
This is exactly the opposite for me. I find this entirely unfulfilling and would NEVER agree to be in the lifestyle like this. This sounds exactly like what we see at swingers clubs so often. Just meet up with somebody and head to the back to go through the motions of sex. It doesn't "turn me on" at all and isn't worth the effort to do it. In other words, all of the "normal" things you would do to entice one another into a DESIRE for sex. I dislike going through the motions and I have actually kicked a guy out of my room a couple of times for being a bad kisser. I just have to have a great kisser. I love "dating" and the "romance" that goes along with it.

It's so exciting to go for a weekend with another guy and actually "be his" for that time. Hold hands , small talk, romance and great sex. Even if he is married, I prefer the romantic getaway. Repeat sex with my favorite lovers is a complete turn on. I love threesomes and especially with my husband and another man. That said, I don't want him around and involved in my sex life and personal life all the time. I do record my sessions most of the time (with the permission of the guys). Men say and do things with me when I'm alone with them, that they would never dare to do with my husband right there. The way they talk to me, the rougher treatment, taking whatever it is they want, etc.

I really enjoy getting "picked up" at bars (especially hotel bars) when I'm in the mood. It's just a kink of mine and that would never work under your rules. I meet guys skiing, at the lake and on vacation especially. I tell my husband I have a date or I just go on my own for awhile and tell him later. I love the freedom of being "single" when it comes to my sex life. That is the real turn on. Anyway, it works for us..

Mrs Hw
This is awesome!! I think it is so hot that guys do things alone with you that they would never do in front of your husband AND the fact that you go along with those things and hopefully actively participate in those things. WOW, love that!!