gloveguy,
After reading your life as it is now, you have stated you want to be a cuck. She knows you want to be a cuck. Its important to know like what monotick stated you must have rules. Being a cuck you think everything should be as the dom wants it, and that's mostly true. But if you don't have rules, there may be some situation that you cant live with.
Things to consider
Clean up- do you want to? does she want to? and including cleaning him also?
Do you want to watch? or be in the bed providing support? or being in the same house?
Will family know? what happens if they are seen together maybe even kissing, or more?
Stay overs, will she stay there over night and weekends? Will he stay over and or move in?
There are probably more but I think will give you a start.
I would discuss with her, and let her know the things that are a must and important to you. Maybe you really want to cleanup, and she does not want that, so its important to cover things that ahead time.
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gloveguy,
After reading your life as it is now, you have stated you want to be a cuck. She knows you want to be a cuck. Its important to know like what monotick stated you must have rules. Being a cuck you think everything should be as the dom wants it, and that's mostly true. But if you don't have rules, there may be some situation that you cant live with.
Things to consider
Clean up- do you want to? does she want to? and including cleaning him also?
Do you want to watch? or be in the bed providing support? or being in the same house?
Will family know? what happens if they are seen together maybe even kissing, or more?
Stay overs, will she stay there over night and weekends? Will he stay over and or move in?
There are probably more but I think will give you a start.
I would discuss with her, and let her know the things that are a must and important to you. Maybe you really want to cleanup, and she does not want that, so its important to cover things that ahead time.
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Very well written, and powerful thoughts, as well. 🙂
i agree with you on the rules, however, She is definitely not a “rules” Woman. I’ve known that from the beginning, so, i have to lye in the bed i’ve made for myself. How this journey started has made things difficult for me, but, again, it’s largely my doing that their relationship has blossomed to this point. i can elaborate in a separate thread entry if anyone is interested.
In terms of the specifics of what parameters our future cuckold relationship, if there is going to be one, that is unsure. She’s talked about having Him over for dinner, where He cooks a meal for Her, etc, and She’s already stated that She wouldn’t be comfortable with me there, so, i can only read into that by meaning i definitely wouldn’t be present for any physical “connections” that may share in the future. i can say that i would do whatever She wants me to do in terms of cleaning Him and Her, fluffing Him for Her, watching, listening from outside the room, or downstairs.
She’s very smart about how She conducts Herself and family would definitely not know. i think She’d go to dinner with Him in public, just not kiss Him in public. She’s too smart for that. i definitely think She’d spend the night at His place, and/or have Him spend the night at our place. She’s VERY comfortable with Him. She already hangs out with Him, just the two of them, and is very comfortable doing so. However, staying at each other’s place, overnight, may not be practical as He only lives a two minute drive from our place. Moving in would probably not happen as they have their own lives, but, one time She did “joke” to Him about staying an a detached guest house we have on our property. Probably just a joke, though.