Hi, I'm Elaine.

[Elaine]

Lol
That's why I advertised
Lol
By the way....My bottom has never been used - the thought scares me
But mouth and pussy are always willing
Lol
xx

 

[BizSC]

That, or you get your ass trained properly!

 

[Elaine]

Too scared
Lol
Im a pain wimp.
Unless of course I become so submissive I have no option

xx

 

[BizSC]

The training would have to start off slow, but from what other women have said, anal orgasms are more intense than vaginal. Who knows, you may end up loving it and wearing a plug all day.

 

[Elaine]

I'm a long way from that
But I am intrigued, that's a start
xx

 

[BizSC]

Next time you masturbate, just rub it a little, see if it makes your heart beat faster. If you like it, explore more at whatever rate you are comfortable with. If you don't like the feeling, that is one of your hard limits, no anal. Only way to find out is to try things.

 

[Elaine]

My husband is away overnight later this week
I'll try then
xx

 

[BizSC]

There you go. Let go of your inhibitions and see what things really bring you pleasure, there is nothing wrong with it. When you are alone, you don't have to feel nervous/guilty of someone watching/judging you. It's your life, try to make it the best for YOU!

 

[Elaine]

I'll do that
A little experimentation
And failing anything else, just do what I enjoy leading to an orgasm
Maybe even be mishevious and call another mans name throughout to make it even hotter
xx

 

[BizSC]

Have a little wine, blindfold yourself, get a didlo, and go to town screaming as many other men's names as you fantasize about being there. See how it goes!

 

[Elaine]

Sounds a plan

xx

 

[Hottie6275]

You could work closely with me on how to turn me into your obedient little cumslut willing to do whatever you order
I'd love being trained

xx

The teacher becomes the taught.

 

[Elaine]

The willing student
xx

 

[Memyselfnu1962]

Hi ya Elaine! Been In your predicament! I've been a Dom for 20 or so years now, and I have empathy for you. I too live in the south west, if you'd like to chat sometime, we can talk..and welcum aboard!

 

[Memyselfnu1962]

Naughty and exhilarating - but scary
xx

Just take your time ....no need to rush..and btw.i don't think it is wasted time..everything is a learning curve! Lol

 

[Elaine]

Hi ya Elaine! Been In your predicament! I've been a Dom for 20 or so years now, and I have empathy for you. I too live in the south west, if you'd like to chat sometime, we can talk..and welcum aboard!

I live in the Northwest

xx

 

[Memyselfnu1962]

I live in the Northwest

xx

Yeppers I caught that AFTER I posted but not to worry, I also live in the states, but I can STILL chat LOL !!

 

[Tom Bauer]

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my name is Elaine. I'm a teacher at a secondary school in the NorthWest so have to be discreet.
I'm married but the marriage has lost its zing and sex is infrequent, almost nonexistent, and even then does nothing for me. It's all kind of "wham bam thank you ma'am"
I'm aroused by the thought of being owned and dominated, made to do things I wouldn't normally do, possibly with multiple partners on my masters whim.
But I'm guessing it's all just a pipe dream for me.

Hi Elaine! While I enjoy the thought of sharing my wife I have the same problem. 4 years of marriage and the sex life has lost its zing.

 

[Elaine]

I know exactly how that feels.
Good luck sorting it out
x

 

[Sharedwife16]

Does hubby have any idea what you want?
It's called Sod's law...
I have a wife that I'd really wish she wanted more new cock ( she has enjoyed a few)...
And I'm guessing you wish you had a hubby that wanted you to fuck other men lol.