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My wife knows I'd like her to experience a big cock. She's still firmly in the "never gonna happen" camp. This last year we've been dealing with a bunch of family related problems that have invaded our privacy and as a consequence our sex lives. We finally got an opportunity to get away to our...

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In my jacking off dreams: This is the first time I've been allowed to see my wife with her much endowed friend. Instead of being sat off to the side she lets me see up close the difference without mistake. I naturally begin to covet her/my pussy. I look over and see that cock and I know he'll...

I often read how routine sex diminishes desire in monogamous relationships. Does this happen in hotwife/cuckold relationships too? Does the sex ever become a predictable routine that over time loses its thrill to evoke desire and interest in your husband/bf? Have any of you husbands/bfs...

How many here are pussy free? Are you happy about it? What's the best thing about being pussy free?

Why does it seem that when you read threads about a gf/wife that is "asked" to become a hotwife/cuckold wife, she clears the slate oblivious to her bf/husband and sets her own absolute rules. I get that it's her body but what if it is beyond what a bf/husband "asked" for? Aren't relationships...

I'm always wanting to learn from people that make their hotwife/cuckold relationship work. It's also very helpful to learn some of the hard lessons some of you have learned through failure too. Over the years of being interested in being "In the lifestyle" I've read a common trait that honest...

I realize that most people on this site are looking for masturbation fodder. Personally, I'd like some real discussion about how any alternate lifestyle successfully functions. Knowing how it really works or fails is what my brain craves. Wives/gfs how did you feel when you realized you had...

I've read a bunch of things that say that there is no way to legitimately increase a penis size. Yes, I've read about techniques or devices that claim it is possible (ie pumps, jelqing exercises, stretching devices). If you can't lengthen a penis then why would chastity shrink a penis? Does this...

How many of you have traveled to a place intentionally for sex? It could be Hedo, Mexico, wherever! I’d love to hear your experiences? What was it like planning it? Was it as good as you thought it would be?

Do you get anything out of using a strap on on your husband? Was it your idea or did your husband ask for it? Does your husband get prepped with an enema? It seems like it would be messy if he didn't. Do you have any suggestions about particular manufacturers for what you have found to be a...

Other than wishing you had started earlier in your life, what has been the biggest mistake(s) you've made so far. If you have any advice that you've learned the hard way what is it?

It seems ridiculously simple to say that I think my chances would be so much different if my wife had different friends. Most of her really close friends are from her church. Even though we don't attend any more they are still her major influence and confidants. I think it would make a huge...

It must be a thrill to see your wife settle in to making a man cum with her mouth. To see her with blinders on knowing full well she's not stopping until she has proven her skill. I would think knowing she has the desire and determination would be something to be proud of as a husband. When my...

I've never been able to understand (so be kind to my honest question) why women want to become pregnant by their lovers. My wife and I have only one son (an adult now) and we had him when we were young. Our thinking was we'd have our freedom from the heavy responsibility for the needs of a...

My wife and I have always talked about moving to a foreign country since we are both retired. New Zealand has always been a place we talk about. We make the move not knowing a single person there. We get settled in and after a few weeks I’m reading the paper and I see an ad for a brothel (legal...

Does a fantasy always have to be good? Does it have to be something "think" you “really” want to happen? Can it also be something you dread but it still excites you? It seems to me that something you dread is more of a nightmare in reality, so, not so much a "happy fantasy". I've been reading...

There seems to be a wide and varying implementation of denial in this community. Most (not all) men here are denied sex with other women as an almost given rule. Some are denied any sexual contact or stimulation from their wives. Some are denied specific acts or orifices. Some control their...

Do you belong to one? Do you go often? Did it change things for you as a couple? Were your experiences positive or negative?

My wife has never liked any toy other than her Hitachi Magic wand. I've always wanted to use a dildo on her bigger than me just to see if it sparks anything. Any suggestions on how to introduce it in a clever way that she'll respond to?