Does Size Matter

I am sure that this has been discussed somewhere, apologize for any reposting. We know our opinion, but curious about others opinion.

Does size matter and if so what size (length and girth) is ideal?
Wife likes thick rather than too long.of course, she is 5 6, 115 lbs so that might make a difference. She was exclusively black when she played. Every one of her lovers was at least 8 (I am 7.5 and thick). Her longest was, measured in front of me..11 inches and thick Took her about 8 trys but finally took it all. She told me it was the most intense orgasm she ever had, and I could hear her from downstairs. How to use it, which he did, makes the difference.
 
It really depends on the context. For me if a guy is going to be my bull, then yes, size really does matter. Around 9” is the perfect compromise of what I can take without too much trouble while still making me feel like it’s pushing it.
For casual hookups I’m not too bothered as long as a guy is at least average sized. I’ve had great sex with some averagely sized guys and some disappointments with better endowed guys. Being able to get it up, keep it up and know how to use it is what really counts. After that bigger is a bonus.
Lynn x
My wife totally agrees. She has had an eight inch dick before but was not as pleased as she is with me at six inches and more girth.
 
My wife totally agrees. She has had an eight inch dick before but was not as pleased as she is with me at six inches and more girth.
Yes girth counts for a lot. Also some guys with a big dick dont have a clue which is a shame. I’d rather have an average guy who knows how to use what he’s got than a big guy who doesn’t. Saying that, I still prefer a bigger cock if the guy can use what nature has given him xx
 
Yes girth counts for a lot. Also some guys with a big dick dont have a clue which is a shame. I’d rather have an average guy who knows how to use what he’s got than a big guy who doesn’t. Saying that, I still prefer a bigger cock if the guy can use what nature has given him xx
And what do you think if nature has gifted the guy with some length, girth and skill. And a great tongue, too!
 
Yes girth counts for a lot. Also some guys with a big dick dont have a clue which is a shame. I’d rather have an average guy who knows how to use what he’s got than a big guy who doesn’t. Saying that, I still prefer a bigger cock if the guy can use what nature has given him xx
Who wants a pencil dick no matter how long? Girth and skill will get a man far.
 
I posted this in another group. I thought I'd add it here as well.

Maybe I could offer some thoughts. I'm a bull. I'm 43 and been single most of my life and a bull just as long. I have no idea how many women I've slept with but my best guess is somewhere around 500. About 100 were hotwives or wives I hit on for the husband. I'm big but not "huge." There are certain positions I can't do with certain women because I bottom out or it's painful. I can give my opinion based on experience. There are size queens out there and in my experience size queens fall into one of a few categories:
1) Male driven. A male, usually husband or boyfriend convince them they want something bigger. They are turned on by it because they are turned on knowing they are turning their husband/boyfriend on by going for it.
2). The trophy hunters. Just like someone that deer hunts for a trophy. They want more of a challenge, they want to feel like they've made a big find by finding a big cock. Like a trophy hunter they want to brag about the "trophy" but as with hunters the meat is what it's really all about and trophy deer don't always eat good.
3) Women with a fat ass. It might require a bigger dick to push through the layer of fat and hit the spot!
4). for some (not near as many as most guys think) it does in fact feel better for them. I've found no two women like the same thing sexually, get off the same way or cum the same way. For some women it just feels better to be stretched out.
With that being said most women need at least average. Too small typically leaves them unhappy.
 
My experience is that large size is a wow factor and a badge of honor for some ladies, i.e. bragging rights. However, going through college with an average length dick, but one that was thick, my best reputation was due to the fact that I just loved to give oral. I had girls coming to me and saying that her mate had told her that if they asked me back for coffee then I was not going to pressure her into full sex, but that she 'really needed to try him'. Easy for me, I learnt so much about female orgasms, and how hard it is to get some girls over the cliff. It was not for want of trying on my part and, of course, with some it progressed to penetration. However, if you just concentrate on who has the biggest cock, then you really are missing out on half the fun
 
I posted this in another group. I thought I'd add it here as well.

Maybe I could offer some thoughts. I'm a bull. I'm 43 and been single most of my life and a bull just as long. I have no idea how many women I've slept with but my best guess is somewhere around 500. About 100 were hotwives or wives I hit on for the husband. I'm big but not "huge." There are certain positions I can't do with certain women because I bottom out or it's painful. I can give my opinion based on experience. There are size queens out there and in my experience size queens fall into one of a few categories:
1) Male driven. A male, usually husband or boyfriend convince them they want something bigger. They are turned on by it because they are turned on knowing they are turning their husband/boyfriend on by going for it.
2). The trophy hunters. Just like someone that deer hunts for a trophy. They want more of a challenge, they want to feel like they've made a big find by finding a big cock. Like a trophy hunter they want to brag about the "trophy" but as with hunters the meat is what it's really all about and trophy deer don't always eat good.
3) Women with a fat ass. It might require a bigger dick to push through the layer of fat and hit the spot!
4). for some (not near as many as most guys think) it does in fact feel better for them. I've found no two women like the same thing sexually, get off the same way or cum the same way. For some women it just feels better to be stretched out.
With that being said most women need at least average. Too small typically leaves them unhappy.
Very good post, very good.

I laughed when reading it, because the categorization is hilarious.

I'd add "the sex addicts". I met some of them, comings from the first group you mentioned, but after trying sex with experienced bulls, they become addict to it.

I have several couples who thought the wife was completely asexual, and after some dates they became pornstars 😅 what was a great surprise for the three of us...