How would wife behave after her first experience with another man? What are the do's and don'ts I should follow?

How would wife behave after her first experience with another man? What are the do's and don'ts I should follow?
Before you both try this it must be a thing you both want it and will enjoy it
If she want it and you don't you will see her an other way after she try it
If you want ut and she doesn't
She may regret letting someone fuck her sacred pussy
After all it is a thing you both do it for both of you
 
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The first time ( she was 54)was because she wanted it and had put a.profile on a swingers site ! The first meet was fun as she dressed to thrill and the guy ,who was a bit shy , undressed her and enjoyed touching but he didn't undress and just watched my wife finger herself .No problems .The second one was with an experienced couple who massaged her and both played with her pussy bringing her to several.orgasms .They were both naked and my wife was soon touching his cock and balls and then masturbating him.She really loved it especially when he came all.over her tits .I was upset and not sure as it was all a bit sudden seeing my previously "normal "demure wife with another mans cock in her hand enjoying herself as she was being fingered to orgasm.She seemed so comfortable being naked with them and allowing intimate contact .I vowed never to do it again as although I found it a turn on I was jealous ,humiliated and worried as to how far she would go but she was really into it saying how turned on she was and wanting to plan new meets .Not much I could do other than go along with it and let her choose more men to meet. These meetings showed how much my wife liked her slutty adventures but were difficult for me as it was clear how much she liked other mens cocks and being played with .I gradually became more accepting of it and realised how much I liked watching .I now actively encourage her and she has moved onto having regular sex with a succession of boyfriends .She finds it liberating to have an outlet for her sexual desires and enjoys being a slut for a day and I'm a confirmed voyeur and watcher .I guess seeing your life partner with another mans penis in her and loving it takes a bit of getting used to .
 
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Wives aren't generic, neither are situations or other men. Mine was relieved I still respected and loved her, and after being sure of that was eager for more, and willing to push her boundaries further.
 
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Everyone is different. It depends on your wife.

I told my wife the fantasy, and she fulfilled it a couple months later, on my birthday. She told me while we were at a restaurant for dinner. She was anxious about what my reaction would be. All I asked her was if she enjoyed herself. She said yes but would not look at me when she said it. I told her good and dropped the subject. A few days later I told her I was ok if she was with him again, I just asked that she let me know after the fact. The following night we had sex, and the following day when I came home from work she told me she had been with him again. We talked much later and she told me if I would have pushed her with questions, it would have turned her off, initially. She was feeling guilty and her emotions were all over the place because she liked the sex so much with him (not her husband). I never pushed her and it was not long before he was with her twice a week and she added boyfriends.

Everyone is different, you should know your wife and how she will react to being pushed or going a little slower.
So true. You know your wife better than anyone. You followed your gut and you gave her the proof that you would not blow up or try some tricks with her. True she feels a little guilt but it was her scared that she had hurt you. Now she knows you support her.
 
Wives aren't generic, neither are situations or other men. Mine was relieved I still respected and loved her, and after being sure of that was eager for more, and willing to push her boundaries further.
True again... But women want to be pushed further. They need to go beyond their expectations. Push her, don't shove.
 
So true. You know your wife better than anyone. You followed your gut and you gave her the proof that you would not blow up or try some tricks with her. True she feels a little guilt but it was her scared that she had hurt you. Now she knows you support her.
and again i ask myself and wonder if it is a good thing or a bad thing that most American ladies are so very much conscience-stricken
 
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How would wife behave after her first experience with another man? What are the do's and don'ts I should follow?

Does she want to do it? To please you only will be an issue